Secret #8: The Taboo of Sex with Kristen Campbell
On this episode of Life’s Dirty Little Secrets, we dive deep into the taboo of sex with our special guest Kristen Campbell. We explore the importance of pleasure and the varied ways in which it can be expressed and experienced. We discuss the challenges that arise from the societal taboo around discussing pleasure and how having open conversations is necessary for our understanding and exploration of it.
We debunk myths and misconceptions about what is considered normal or healthy in terms of pleasure, and emphasize the importance of communication and understanding individual needs in relationships. We also examine the roots of the taboo of sex in religion, societal structures, and fear, and the impact it has on individuals and communities.
Our guest shares their insights as a sex therapist, and highlights the importance of knowledge and education in empowering individuals to have healthier and more fulfilling sexual experiences. Tune in to this thought-provoking episode as we challenge the silence and stigma surrounding sex and delve into the complexities of human sexuality.
Highlights:
Taboo on sex: cultural, religious, and individual factors
Normal sexual responses and societal influences
Pleasure, taboo, myths, desire, arousal, intimacy
Taboos around healthy sexual relationships, diverse expressions
Resources discussed in this episode:
Emily Nagoski: Book and podcast. Both titled, “Come as you are”. www.emilynagoski.com
Research on the impact of porn on our brains, especially males. www.yourbrainonporn.com.au
Sex education resource for adults. www.beducated.com
Talking to children about sexual development. www.healthywa.wa.gove.au/Articles/S-T/Talk-soon-Talk-often
Sex education for teens, www.bishuk.com
An education resource for females. www.omgyes.com
About Kristen Campbell
I have been working as a Social Worker for 15 years and have worked in a range of settings including mental health (inpatient & community services) and interpersonal trauma (sexual assault & domestic violence). In the last 7-8 years I have been working in Private Practice, providing therapy to both individuals and couples. I currently specialise in Sex & Relationship therapy, but continue to be passionate about the impact of trauma and adverse events in people’s lives and how this impacts attachments to other people and effects day to day functioning. I also hold a teaching role with the University of Sydney, within the Sexual & Reproductive Health faculty.
I aim to provide a space where people can feel safe, brave and supported as they navigate the challenges in their relationships and their lives. I am a big believer that we develop responses to situations we find ourselves in, so you will find my approach non-pathologising and I work to collaborate with you in understanding what has happened in your life and how to move forward with your goals.
I will be a good fit for those who are wanting a direct, empathic approach and for those who have developed their goals and believe in their capacity for change.
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