Secret #33: Parents Matter - But Do We Make a Difference with Dr. Emily Edlynn

 

In this episode of 'Life's Dirty Little Secrets,' hosts Chris McCurry and Emma Waddington talk with Dr. Emily Edlynn, a clinical psychologist specializing in children and families. 

They explore the question of whether parents truly make a significant difference in their children's lives. The conversation delves into parenting pressures, the influence of genetics versus parental involvement, and the impact of different parenting styles. Emily shares insights from her new book on autonomy-supportive parenting, offering practical advice on managing parental anxiety and fostering healthy development in children. 

The episode highlights the importance of maintaining a balanced perspective on the real influence of parenting and encourages listeners to focus on building nurturing relationships with their children.

Highlights:

  • The impact of intensive parenting

  • The influence of genetics vs. parenting

  • Parental responsibility and anxiety

  • The evolution of the parent-child relationship

TIMESTAMPS

[01:54] The Impact of Parenting

[08:27] Genetics vs. Parenting

[11:38] Parental Responsibility and Anxiety

[22:28] Pseudoscience and Parenting

[29:01] Parental Expectations and Child Development

[30:31] The Importance of Parent-Child Relationship

[32:20] Technology and Modern Parenting Challenges

[34:44] Pressure in Youth Sports

[35:52] Dealing with Children's Disappointment

[40:27] Parental Influence and Letting Go

[44:52] Balancing Guidance and Freedom

About Dr. Emily Edlynn:

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Emily Edlynn is a licensed clinical psychologist specializing in pediatric health psychology who works in private practice with children, teens, and adults. She has a BA in English from Smith College, a PhD in clinical psychology from Loyola University Chicago, and completed postgraduate training at Stanford and Children’s Hospital Orange County. Emily spent almost ten years working in children’s hospitals before pivoting to private practice, which allowed her to start a writing career. Emily has written her blog, The Art and Science of Mom, since 2017 and a parenting advice column for Parents.com since 2019. Emily’s writing has also appeared in the Washington Post, Scary Mommy, Good Housekeeping, Motherly, and more. She recently joined the Psychologists Off the Clock podcast as a co-host and is the author of a new book, Autonomy-Supportive Parenting: Reduce Parental Burnout and Raise Competent Confident Children. Emily lives with her husband, three children, and two rescue dogs in Oak Park, IL where she can see Chicago’s skyline from her attic window.


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